Tips for choosing an autism-friendly holiday destination

As an autism advocate and provider of autism-friendly toys and learning aids, I know how important it is for families with neurodivergent children to choose the right holiday destination. Holidays can be overwhelming and overstimulating for those with sensory processing difficulties, so it's crucial to choose a destination that caters to their needs. 
 
If you're a parent of an autistic child, you may have already experienced the difficulties of finding an autism-friendly holiday destination. However, with a bit of research and careful planning, you can make sure your family has a fairly relaxing and hopefully enjoyable break! 
 
Here are some tips for choosing an autism-friendly holiday destination: 

If you like reading reviews, there are plenty of online reviews geared towards disabled travellers. These are well worth looking at for handy tips and advice. We use DisabledGo and Euan’s Guide but there are lots out there!   
 
There are some wonderfully insightful and entertaining disability travel bloggers out there who prove that you can go anywhere and do anything if you know how.  
 
They’re able to give you an insight into what their journeys are like, and as most are independent, they’ll be honest, rather than selling what you want to hear. Lots of bloggers turn the fun parts into amusing anecdotes – but the point of reading their tales is to avoid those same issues on your own holiday. 

When deciding on your holiday destination, there are several factors to consider. Think about the type of holiday you want - beach or city break, relaxing or adventurous, as well as the availability of accessible attractions and activities. It's also important to think about transportation and how you'll get around. Additionally, you might want to consider the distance and ease of travel, and the weather - which can directly affect what’s available, and the energy levels of all involved! 

By car 
The most convenient form of transport for disabled people is their own car. The advantages are that luggage and kit are limited only by boot capacity and that you can take your own route, at your own pace, to wherever you like - and get up and go when the mood takes you, rather than being tied to a timetable. Having said that, driving can be stressful and tiring.  
 
By train 
Railway services in the UK and across Europe (connected via the Channel Tunnel) can offer assistance to disabled passengers with their luggage and boarding, etc. For details regarding passenger assistance, visit National Rail.  
 
In the UK, the Disabled Persons Railcard offers a third off the price of all journeys and the Transreport app enables disabled people to set up passenger assistance.  
 
By plane 
Disabled people can access special assistance at airports and while travelling on planes, but each airport and airline has its own way of doing things. Special assistance should be arranged at the time of booking or at least 48 hours before you travel, via your tour operator, airline or travel agent. Disabled people can get assistance with getting around the airport and boarding Aviation Authority website, at: www.caa.co.uk.  

It's essential to choose a destination that's accessible and inclusive for all. Check for things like wheelchair access, assistance for those with sensory difficulties, and accommodations that cater to specific needs. You can contact hotels or resorts in advance to ask about their accessibility and inclusivity policies. 

While some families may enjoy the hustle and bustle of large, crowded resorts, these can be overwhelming for neurodivergent children. Instead, opt for quieter, more secluded destinations where your child can relax and unwind. Look for hotels or villas that are located away from busy roads, beaches or nightclubs. Many people I speak to opt for something in the rural countryside of the UK as it's not too far to travel and doesn't involve plane journeys, and it's peaceful. Wales or Devon and Cornwall have a lovely selection of houses to rent if that’s within your budget. Pairing up with another family can make this more affordable.

Many resorts and hotels now offer facilities and activities that are suitable for neurodivergent children. Look out for sensory rooms, quiet spaces, and activities that don't involve too much stimulation. These can be a great way for your child to relax and enjoy themselves without feeling overwhelmed. Anywhere with a soft play centre or trampoline is often a good call so they can burn off some excess energy and you may even grab a cup of tea before it goes cold. Check menus beforehand to make sure that any cafes or restaurants can cater if you have a picky eater.  

Travelling with medications or aids can be stressful, but bringing any necessary items with you is essential. Make sure you pack enough medication for the duration of your holiday and any medical equipment or aids your child may need. You can also bring items that help your child feel more comfortable, such as noise-cancelling headphones or weighted blankets. I know I don’t need to suggest you bring their iPad or handheld gaming device as it’s probably glued to them anyway!  
 
Rules about carrying medication  
You could end up with a fine, or even prison time, if you travel with medicine that’s illegal in another country, even if you’re only there for a layover. Check with the embassy of the country you’re going to before you travel as different countries have different rules.  
 
For example, some medicines available over the counter in the UK may be ‘controlled’ in other countries and vice versa. Visit: www.gov.uk/travelling-controlled-drugs to be sure. 

It's crucial to ensure that the destination you choose is safe and secure. Look for destinations with good security measures, such as secure hotels or resorts and well-lit areas. Obviously, it's also essential to keep an eye on your child at all times and make sure they are aware of any safety procedures, but we know they won't always listen! 

It can sometimes be difficult to get the money together to take a holiday. There are, however, organisations that can help through grants or providing time away at their own facilities: 
 
Disability Grants 
Specialists in helping disabled people find grants and funding for all manner of projects and of course, that includes holidays. 
 
Family Fund  
Family Fund can provide grants towards the cost of holidays for families on a low income who are caring for a child with a severe disability.  
 
The Family Holiday Charity 
A charity that provides breaks at holiday sites, or grants to help with the cost of a holiday, to low-income families in need of a holiday away from home. You need to be referred by your social worker, GP or health visitor, or by a charity or other welfare agent.  
 
Revitalise  
A national charity and the leading UK provider of breaks and holidays for disabled people and carers across three purpose-built centres. They create experiences that stay with guests long after they return home.  
 
By following these tips, you can help ensure your family has a relaxing and enjoyable holiday. Remember, choosing a destination that caters to your child's needs and preferences is essential. With a bit of research and planning, you can find a holiday destination that everyone will love. 
 
At our store, we offer a wide range of autism-friendly toys and learning aids that can help make your child's holiday even more enjoyable. From sensory toys to educational games, our products are designed to support your child's development and help them feel more comfortable and relaxed. 
 
In conclusion, choosing an autism-friendly holiday destination requires careful planning and research. Remember, we’re here to support you with a range of autism-friendly toys and learning aids that can help make your child's holiday even more enjoyable.